Nobody’s born with an instruction manual for life, despite all the advice you get from our parents, grandparents, or even me; each of us make our own way in the world, doing the best we can. It’s so easy to get stuck and comfortable in one place. We stay there wanting change, wanting to move on, but quite often we end up getting things wrong.

Messing up a few times isn’t that big a deal, because each mistake brings forth growth, but if you get scared and try to avoid all these mistakes by sticking with just a few “well I tried” behaviors, you’ll miss out on most opportunities as well. Those people who constantly complain or suffer from pain in relationship are the only ones doing it to themselves. They’re upset, hurt and frustrated because that’s what their choices have caused them to be. They’re stuck in a ditch when only they held the shovel and the dug the hole, all while trying to avoid confrontation, learning from a mistake and taking risks to change their life.

Moving on is simple, it’s the thought of what you leave behind or fear of what’s going to happen later on that makes it difficult. You just got know that, people who never make mistakes or take risks never make anything. Excuses only sound best to the person making them up. Acceptance is the key

Love is not forceful… If it’s meant to be, it will happen; if not, just enjoy the connection. Too many women lowered their standards to feel love, and too many men don’t succeed in having their own. What we allow & accept today becomes tomorrow’s standards of yourself. When you finally submit yourself to the truth you will feel a whole lot better…

Peace
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