Faced with choices all of our lives, we have no choice but to hit or miss sometimes. Can your past relations cause a problem in present and future relationships?

Sometimes as humans we don’t know how to digest information about our spouses past, and then on top of it, you are faced with the choice to believe or not believe.  However as humans we must sometimes take a step back and realize that regardless to what is written in another’s history… you really cant handcuff someone to their past!  You’re only hurting yourself if you do.

Now don’t get me wrong, if the past is somehow leaking into the present… then you have a presented problem. But, if it is buried in the past don’t dig it up… unless you want to have hurt feelings that may never be repaired.  You are probably wondering why I say that your wound may never heal, and I tell you now, it is based off of one simple fact that will never change, no matter how far or recent  in the past it is; and that fact is that no one can change what they have done… Only what they may do!

You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present.  - Jan Glidewell

-          Mylauney Billups

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